Maintaining Love in Relationships
Love is perhaps one of the most celebrated human emotions, yet also one of the most complex to understand and maintain. Joan Garriga, a distinguished psychologist and pioneer in introducing Bert Hellinger’s work in Spain, offers a fresh perspective on this timeless topic. In a recent interview, Garriga shared his wisdom on how to maintain love in relationships. He spoke with depth and great humility about his vast experience, combining his training as a humanistic psychologist with his work as a Gestalt therapist.
Love and its many colors
Garriga begins by challenging the conventional notion of a single form of love “Love evokes many things, it’s not as if there is one love, there are many loves” she says. This idea opens up the possibility of a broader understanding of love, encouraging people to recognize and value its many forms and manifestations within their relationships.
Love as a Transcendent Experience
One of Garriga’s most poetic and provocative points is about the origin of love. “Blessed is the poem that comes through me but not from me,” she reflects, suggesting that love is something that flows through an individual and beyond an origin of the self. This perspective invites couples to see their love not just as an emotion or a bond between two people, but as part of a larger, mystical experience.
Practical Tips to maintain the flame of Love
While Garriga’s reflections are deeply philosophical, they also offer practical implications for couples striving to maintain love in their relationships. Recognizing the various ways in which love can manifest itself can lead to a more accepting and flexible approach to relationship dynamics. In addition, viewing love as a transcendent experience can foster a sense of gratitude and wonder within the relationship that allows couples’ hearts to bond more deeply.
In short, Joan Garriga’s reflections remind us that love, though complex, remains at the core of human connection. By embracing the multifaceted nature of love and recognizing its transcendent qualities, couples can find new ways to nurture and sustain their bonds. In a world that often seeks simple answers, Garriga’s reflections offer valuable insight into how to celebrate the mystery and beauty of love in all its forms.
Incorporating these insights into your relationship involves a journey of exploration and discovery that renews and deepens the connection between partners. As Garriga beautifully argues, love is more than a feeling: it is a profound experience that connects us to something greater than ourselves.
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